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12/23/2006-- But his Hindu
beliefs don't stand in the way of him celebrating Christmas with family and
friends.
Xu Lin, a 23-year-old who immigrated from China to the United States at the age
of 13, also celebrates Christmas even though he is Buddhist. Lin says he also
believes in Christianity and that he is like many younger Chinese-Americans who
celebrate the holiday.
Ranganathan and Lin are part of a growing number of people from different
religious backgrounds who celebrate Christmas. Many have developed their own
celebrations that they blend with traditional American customs to create their
own holiday memories.
Ranganathan grew up attending a Catholic school in India and celebrating
Christmas with midnight Mass.
Christmas in India wasn't about Santa Claus, he said, nor was it surrounded by
the commercialism of the season.
It was a time to reflect on the birth of Jesus Christ and a time of hope for
people in India and around the world, Ranganathan said.
The Ranganathans celebrate Christmas by decorating their home, giving gifts to
friends and neighbors and watching "Frosty the Snowman."
At home, they don't exchange gifts and none are left under or near their 2-foot
fiber optic tree.
"Our sense of Christmas is not focused on gifts," he said. "It's a day that
gives hope for all people that focuses on the birth of Christ."
Ranganathan has passed on his spiritual views of Christmas to his 12-year-old
son, Athri, who he's also tried to expose to a variety of religious beliefs,
customs and cultures.
"He certainly has a lot of exposure not only from school but also from his
American grandparents," Ranganathan said of Athri's relationship with Miriam and
John Dunn. The Dunns and Ranganathans spend most holidays together and view each
other as close family.
"From the time he was born, he's been exposed to all of the American
celebrations," Ranganathan said. "I think he's probably got a broad exposure."
On Christmas, Ranganathan plans to spend a little time focusing on the birth of
Jesus with his wife, Vandana, and son. They will then have Christmas lunch with
the Dunns.
"He knows what Christmas is about because we talk to him about the meaning,"
Ranganathan said. "Coming from India, Christmas was not about Santa Claus.
Christmas truly meant midnight Mass where you celebrate the birth of Christ, and
that's what I try to give to my son."
Xu Lin, who many call "Mike", also has his own ways of celebrating Christmas.
Lin recognizes the Christmas holiday and the birth of Jesus. He also views the
holiday from the American perspective that includes Santa Claus, Christmas trees
and gifts.
His exposure to American customs and religious beliefs have also influenced his
views.
"I was educated here so I learned a lot of things here from the church," he
said.
More and more Chinese families celebrate Christmas as the message of Christ's
birth is told in China by American missionaries. Older Chinese generations don't
observe the holiday as much as younger generations, Lin said.
"People over in Asia, a lot of them now do celebrate Christmas," he said. "Older
Western holidays are entering the East."
Lin's parents don't take part in Christmas celebrations but Lin does by giving
and receiving gifts and spending part of the day with family.
Lin will spend part of Christmas working at Wilson's Good Taste Buffet, where a
Christmas tree is centered near the front door. After work, he'll spend time
with family.
"We have a big meal," he said. "It's just like a family reunion."
Some Americans do not observe the holiday at all.
Barbara Barshay, a Jewish woman who grew up in Wilson, has never celebrated
Christmas. As a young girl, she took part in many of the Jewish holidays that
were regularly celebrated by Wilson's Jewish community.
"It's difficult when you're a child and you're different," she said. "You kind
of go through this holiday and everyone wishes you a 'Merry Christmas'. People
automatically think everyone is a Christian and everyone celebrates Christmas."
Barshay isn't offended by Christmas celebrations or Christian-themed holidays.
She just doesn't participate. She does, however, respect other's beliefs and
expressions of faith.
"Christmas is like another day to me," Barshay said. "We were taught all
religions should be respected."
Barshay grew up celebrating the Jewish holiday of Hanukkah, which usually occurs
around the Christmas season. The celebration focuses on the liberation of the
Jewish people during the 2nd Century B.C. when they reclaimed the Temple in
Jerusalem from the Greek empire.
The Hanukkah tradition of lighting candles for eight days is connected to the
Jewish victory when one day's worth of oil remained miraculously lit for eight
days inside the temple. Hanukkah involves family celebrations, some gift giving
and the lighting of candles for eight days.
Christmas is still a holiday Barshay recognizes as important to most Americans.
"Christmas is a holiday that most of the people I know celebrate," she said.
"It's a time to celebrate their holiday."
(Contributed by WilsonDaily.com)